i wouldn’t say a ton. i’ve lost ALMOST 20 lbs since january, but i pretty much look the same tbh.

i borrowed it from my friend nina. it’s from f21 and she bought it like two days ago. :))

i’ve worked really hard to not eat gluten! i think that’s the main difference. thank you so much.  you’re too kind.

oh wow thanks!

i cut my hair so my methods have changed a bit but yea! i’d actually love to but i don’t have a good camera. maybe i will for you because you’re a nice anon. ahahha. you’re not dumb either! i just have a lot of experience curling hair from show choir etc! thank you for the kind words.

i’ve lost like maybe 5lbs in the last couple weeks but i think it’s just from my new retail job. nothing toooo noticeable! thanks tho! ;)

get in line

i’m having a hard time styling it. i like that i went shorter overall but i just haven’t figured out how not to look 12 or like a figure skater or like mandy moore in the 2000’s. long hair is easy. and there’s a lot of femininity in longer hair sometimes, you know? this is a long answer. i like it but i don’t but i do. hahahahahha.

that’s like, the coolest! yay. i’m glad you got involved etc etc etc. you go girl! or boy! or whatever you identify as. that’s so cool.

seriously?! this is the best thing i’ve ever heard. that’s awesome! i’m so happy you voted! way to be an awesome citizen. omg this is the coolest ask EVER.

um well i’m not the best at relationship advice… have you sat down and had an honest, non accusatory talk about how it makes you feel? and then truly listened to what he has to say in reply? it’s hard not be jealous but at the same time, it can be so easy to be jealous. i wouldn’t worry about it too much, but that’s just me. is this an ok reply? i don’t know.

• it’s definitely subjective? like they accept 89% of the people who apply. most people wouldn’t consider that a ‘good school’ because it’s easy to get into. thats just one factor of what people use to judge what’s a good school. other things like location, graduation rate, career rate, difficulty, etc. 
• the education i was receiving did not meet up to my standards. the vocal program didn’t match up to my HIGH SCHOOL VOCAL PROGRAM. i am not unappreciative, it just was not the right school for me. why is that so hard to comprehend? why are you implying that i was getting a great education? i was the one who went there. you are not me. not everyone learns the same. not everyone wants the same things. i felt like i was wasting money and time.
• want to lend me 40k a year so i can go to school and afford to live there? to go to a school i didn’t like? in a city i was incredibly depressed in? 
• i think you’re being really rude right now, to be quite honest. i gave it a huge chance. i had hesitations when i went to orientation but i ended up going to school (even though my parents said they were fine with me looking for another school) because people like you put pressure on people thinking college is the only option in life. it’s none of your fucking business but i got back into extremely self destructive habits when i was there. i started cutting again and i wasn’t eating. i’m not telling you this to gain sympathy but it is a big factor of me leaving. a factor that maybe one person knows about. it was a dangerous environment for me. i left because it was unsafe and it was not the right place for me. have you ever heard of someone transferring schools? i’m happy you have a great opinion of columbia. i hope you have a great time there and it helps your life but it wasn’t the right path for me. not everyone goes down the same road. it’s easy to make assumptions about other people’s lives if you don’t sit back and realize that you truly know nothing about them or what they’ve gone through. even if you’ve known someone their whole life, you don’t know them at all. i don’t know why you’re so concerned with me leaving a private art school that wasn’t right for me, but it’s not hard to understand. people leave school all the time. i just don’t get it, man.

• not really any of your business
• good school is very subjective
• too expensive for the education i was/ wasn’t getting
• it wasn’t for me
• good school is subjective

thank you. i don’t feel super comfortable sharing my weight on the internet considering people can be pretty cruel but i’m a tad overweight for my height according to charts hahaha. and i am not a natural blonde :( i was when i was younger and now it grows out mousy brown UGH. thank god for peroxide.

no, not at all actually. they’re all grown men etc etc.